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Slackerhood

I hate this type of post, but I feel compelled to share and explain myself.  I’m in flux at the moment.  I’m evacuating from my MacBook as we speak because I have sold it to make way for an iMac.  I’ve needed a new computer for a while and I’ve made my MacBook last me well over three years.  I need a bright, shiny new display for photo editing and possible some “fun“.  Therefore my access to a useful computer has been cut dramatically.

Additionally, I have a Very Big & Important Thing which I’m working on for work.  It’s very BIG and VERY important.  Because I don’t talk about my work for a vast multitude of reasons, I’m not able to go into much detail other than it’s consuming a very large amount of my time.  I’ve handled a similar Thing for work in the past which basically took 80 hours a week for over the course of more than a month to take care of, though this time around it’s not been quite so rough (so far *knocks on wood*).  This Very Big & Important Thing will take up a lot of my time through mid-late April.  Very Good things could happen as a result of this going well, but nothing is set in stone.

What I’m trying to say is that I’m going to be a slacker here for a bit.  The Hulett Plumbing Disaster will be concluded this week, I swear upon my iPhone that it will be done.

Blerg.

Filed under: Ramblings by frisky on 8 March 2010
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American Experience

I adore American Experience on PBS.  Sitting down to watch the films presented on the program is always an exciting, enriching and almost reverent experience for me.  I enjoy documentaries far more than any normal person of my age really should, I’m a total sucker for a Ken Burns documentary.  Every time I sit down to watch American Experience at least once I will be misty eyed with joy, breathless, deeply inspired, outraged, or left sobbing  (or any combination of the above).  It was not uncommon for many of those emotions to be felt just after watching the opening title sequence.

This sequence, and most importantly the song, were replaced recently with a new opening theme.  The new theme is a song which was written by The Chambers Brothers, “Time Has Come Today“.  I may be a premature fuddy-duddy, but I think that this is far from the most appropriate or stirring music for the scope of American Experience.  “Time Has Come Today” is a good song on its own and has therefore been used extensively all over the media and television for thousands of different things.  But these thousands of different fleeting things are not American Experience, which I feel will stand the test of time for generations as quality media and film-making.  I submitted feedback on the program’s home page at PBS and I hope that it will be considered.

I’ve always enjoyed the exceptionally high quality of the subject material, writing, editing, photography and music on American Experience.  The program provides some of the most enriching content available on television, and now online, today.

It may seem trivial, but one of my favorite parts of the program has been the opening sequence.  Like a good palette cleanser before a fine meal, the two previous sequences helped clear my mind and prepare for the program set before me.  They were both exceptionally stirring and worked with the sublime images to pull me from my current surroundings into the story I was about to enjoy.  Those themes were classic and timeless and will never age or do injustice to the content of the films shown on the program.

I would politely request that you reconsider the use of “Time Has Come Today” as the theme music for the program.  I understand that it is more contemporary and that may have been a deciding factor for its use.  I argue that contemporary song, which is often overused for television and radio promotion, does not suit the depth, breadth, and richness of the films presented on American Experience.

Thank you for your time and I look forward to the continued excellence of the films and documentaries which has not changed.

In any case, I strongly recommend that you head over to their site now and watch some of their programs.  There are dozens available online in their entirety.  If you have never seen American Experience you need to drop what you are doing this instant and go watch a film right now.  I would recommend their program on Walt Whitman for your consideration.  I cried multiple times.

Filed under: Ramblings by frisky on 28 February 2010
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Good Morning!

Nothing says, “it’s going to be a great morning!” like a quad-shot grande iced caramel machiatto. Okay, maybe an extra shot would get the point across even better. Or at least quicker.

Filed under: Uncategorized by frisky on 26 February 2010
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Me vs. Facebook

I’ve written no less than three separate draft posts about why I dislike Facebook which I haven’t been pleased with at all.  (Both Facebook and the draft posts.)  I have had a lot of complaints about the applications and flash bull crap they keep letting in to make the site more sticky.  I have been very displeased with their privacy policies as of late.  I have disliked how certain types of conversation and exchanges people share on their public “walls” are now de rigueur when they would have been deemed tacky just a couple years ago.  I was fleshing out all these very vitriolic tirades about how Facebook is so awful and how people use it is awful and the tragic awfulness of it all.

But more than anything I realized that the biggest issues I have had with Facebook were caused by the ways I was choosing to use it.  It just wasn’t working for me.  I would self-plagiarize and waste material I would have otherwise spun into posts here to create one-liner status updates dedicated to getting responses.  I was allowing myself to become engrossed in the ebb and flow of the updates and posts by my contacts that I was losing track of my own personal communication and life.  I realized I was the defective one in the “relationship”. (Boy, isn’t that always the case!)

I was referred to an interesting article from TIME about, of all things, reality TV by, of all people, Santino Rice on Twitter which I found very interesting:

And the personality becomes the persona. Every time you sign up for a new social-networking service, you make decisions about, literally, who you want to be. You package yourself — choose an avatar, pick a name, state your status — not unlike a storyteller creating a character or a publicist positioning a client. You can be professional on LinkedIn, flippant on Facebook and epigrammatic on Twitter. What’s more, each of these representations can be very different and yet entirely authentic. Like a reality producer in a video bay, you edit yourself to fit the context.

It’s so true and I have to confront the fact that I’m a control freak!  I didn’t like the level of control Facebook was giving me to portray the person I feel I am.  I like to have the ability to pick and choose what I tell people dynamically and not have it expressed through automated scripts or online communal behavior.  This is something we do naturally in the course of a personal conversation.  My hangup is that what happens naturally face to face, melts away in the new world of social networking with these larger “whole life” sites like Facebook.

I had been recently contemplating the decline in my usage of text messaging over the last year.  I used to send and receive in the neighborhood of 6,000 text messages a month.  That number has fallen by two thirds.  I used to very directly communicate with the people who I consider important in my life and have been getting lazy by just browsing status updates and had lost a true dialogue with them.  I need to re-kindle that level of communication with the people I care about.  It takes more effort, but it is worth it.

So is Facebook the evil and awful thing I was unsuccessfully writing about previously?  Yes and no.  They have made choices to strip away layers of privacy, which infuriates me.  However, in light of the Google Buzz debacle, Facebook really aren’t so bad in a lot of ways.  Google, please re-read your own tenets of privacy and kill Buzz.  I have realized that the real problem was the fact that I was having issues with everything.  Facebook may be the facilitator for a lot of those issues, but I was the only one who was being affected, so therefore it was my problem.  It took a small ah-ha moment for me to realize I had the ability to choose to not participate and I’m really okay with that.  Even if all the cool kids are doing it.  And their moms.

Filed under: Musings by frisky on 21 February 2010
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Copper Onion

A delightful restaurant in downtown Salt Lake City. Mister Frisky approved!

Filed under: Food, Mobile, Random Photos by frisky on 19 February 2010
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